Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening
By Robert Frost
Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.
My little horse must think it queer
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.
He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound’s the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.
2023 was a year of change. My themes of focus were quietness, absorption, and forward movement. I wrapped up medical school, moved halfway down the East Coast, and started residency. Despite all the professional development, I enjoyed a 7-week adventure in Puerto Rico, visited Paraguay, hiked the 33 highest peaks in the Catskill Mountains of New York, and undertook other small hiking/traveling/outdoor excursions as the opportunity arose.
Residency leaves me tired and overworked, but my progress toward becoming the doctor I wish to be is rapid. On one hand, Frost’s line “miles to go before I sleep” is a literal interpretation of what I expect 2024 to bring professionally. I have many professional goals which will march along as the days pass. On the other hand, the “stopping by woods on a snowy evening” part of Frost’s poem (pausing in an unusual place), resonates with me as I think about my personal goals and themes for 2024. As I set my sights on 2024, three themes are on my mind: quietness, pause, and connectivity. It’ll be a year where I focus on personal health.
Quietness
This was also my first theme in 2023. I’m carrying it forward both because I think it is of utmost importance and because I still have growth to achieve in this area. Being a doctor and learning to become a better doctor involves constant stimulation and 1000s of decisions daily. Adult life is full of challenges including finances (bills and earnings), home management, and unexpected disruptions like illness. With so much happening, I find that it’s easy to get lost in the hullabaloo and lose track of my inner calmness. As the unexpected challenges of 2024 unfold, I will continue to cultivate my inner quietness because I believe it is at the core of resilience and central to success.
Pause
Related to quietness, my second theme is pause. As the hustle of life unfolds, I easily forget to stop to appreciate small and large successes and delights. In 2024, I will take time to pause so I can absorb the joys of life. Focusing on joy will train my mind to see the positive and diminish the negative.
Connectivity
The aspect of connectivity I plan to focus on in 2024 is the mind-body connection. My medical training has been extremely demanding in multiple ways. I have watched my health decline as the doctorhood quest unfolds because of my schedule, external pressures of doctorhood and the healthcare system, and the stress of my work. While my medical training will remain vigorous throughout 2024 and beyond, in 2024, I plan to focus my free time and energy on re-cultivating my physical wellbeing. This focus on physical health combined with my focus on quietness and pause will strengthen my mind-body connection. I think cultivating my own mind-body connection will ground me as I seek to connect with my patients, colleagues, family, and friends.
Connecting the Dots 